Lanyadoo, Jessica “September 2019.” Web blog post. www.lovelanyadoo.com. Lanyadoo, August 27th, 2019. Web. August, 27th, 2019
It’s often hardest to take a balanced approach when your emotions are all over the place, but that’s when you need it the most. Fear often compels us to go into all-or-nothing thinking, but it’s not the most effective response. Create to sit with your emotions, explore your options, and come to the best answers for you and your situation at this moment. As annoying as they are, obstacles are opportunities to realign with your values, Aquarius.
This isn’t the time to allow your fear of conflict to stop you, Pisces. As you learn to take up more space you are likely to find that some people don’t like it. It’s healthy to let other people have their moods and issues without shrinking yourself in response to them. How others feel about you is often more about them, and where they’re at, than about you at all. Be brave enough to stand in your truth, even when it’s controversial, my love.
This September is a transformational time for you to transform your relationship to a fear that has been holding you back, Aries. Strive to understand what’s motivating your worries instead of denying that they exist, or running away from them. Being scared isn’t a weakness to be overcome, it’s an emotion to cope with. It takes true strength to confront the things you’re afraid of. Embrace the path of the unknown this month, my love.
There’s a huge difference between proving yourself and honoring yourself. The former is an act of ego (which isn’t inherently good or bad), while the other is an act of self-satisfaction. Be clear about your motivations, Taurus; if you don’t like what’s driving you, you can totally change it. You may not have all the answers now, so strive to be strong enough to prioritize what you need over you want, and wise enough to know the difference.
If you’ve not been listening to others, you may find that you have to tend to relationship problems, this month. This will confront you not only with how you feel about yourself, but the consequences of how you’ve been making other people feel, too. Showing up for others can look a lot of different ways, but they all include being an active listener; strive to communicate that you’ve heard what’s being said and that you’re here for the people you care about, Twin Star.
In your efforts to experience happiness, beauty or peace, you may have adopted too fixed of an attitude towards what it what you think it needs to look like. The truth is that the messy bits of life are often a wellspring of unexpected pleasures and opportunities for growth. Find things to be grateful for, even when you’re not getting what you want, or you’re uncertain about what comes next, Moonchild. It’s time to embrace the unknown, my love.
Make sure that you’re not self-sabotaging behind your own back by prioritizing self-awareness, Leo. A good place to start is within; explore your fears instead of taking them at face value. While you may be pointed in the right direction, it’s still important to sit with the things that make you uncomfortable or that you’d rather avoid. Understanding what you’re truly afraid of is essential when you’re reaching for greater heights. Love yourself enough to dismantle the limiting beliefs that threaten to hold you back this month.
Be present for the stage of development that you’re at, even if it’s a confounding one, Virgo. You’re likely to feel overwhelmed by what you don’t know this month, and that feeling can compel you to obsess on finding the answers, even if you’re not quite ready for them. . Prioritize finding the truth because it’s the only thing that will clarify things for you. You may be feeling impatient, but don’t confuse where you’re going with where you’re at, my love.
Diplomacy is nice, but when it comes at the expense of authenticity it’s just a pleasant way of shying away from the truth. If you’re not able to experience unpleasant feels like anger, grief, or sadness, you can’t be honest, Libra, my love. You may have to look at the way that you’ve been shaving off the edges of your harsher feelings with the people that you’re close to, and make some uncomfortable corrections this month.
You can’t win ‘em all, but if you’re going to fail, let it be while trying something that you feel passionate about, Scorpio. Make decisions that you can stand behind, even if they’re the riskier options in front of you. When your fear of making mistakes drives you, you’re more likely to miss out on so much of life that is actually good, exciting, and healing. Parse out your intuition from your fears, this month.
Repose isn’t inaction. Sometimes taking a pause to get present emotionally is the most difficult and meaningful thing that you can do. When you find yourself overwhelmed is the exact wrong time to push yourself this month. It’s OK to take a time out when you need it, Sagittarius. It’s important that you’re able to rely on yourself, and treating yourself with kindness before you hit a wall is a huge part of that.
IYour Sun sign can be a bit of a worrier, and this leads to pessimism and seeing scarcity – even when there is none. Look at your situation with the expectation of seeing potential as well as problems, Cappy mon Capitan. You have the capacity to get so much accomplished, but if you over-indulge in negative fantasies your life is unnecessarily harder than it needs to be. You’re totally capable! Shift your perspective in efforts to feel greater resiliency month.
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